I’m so sorry you and a lot of men on here feel that women are nasty. I couldn’t be nicer, more open, more flexible and happy with life and yet I can’t find a partner. It has been 6 years – I take care myself and look great at 55 – everyone says I look 45. I don’t have children and my job is low stress. It has also always been clear to me that no woman could feel attracted to me other than on a platonic level.
We are in an anti male , women are the victims of men period in history . Stay single keep your money and rent sex if you need it that bad. Even pre nups don’t hold up in court , she will own you. Looking for an equally yolked person who wants to have a long term relationship & isn’t all about sex. I have a kind, loving & giving heart. Looking for someone who wants to just start out slowly.
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It is you that matters and how you behave that gives you pride in yourself – what missing part of you will be completed by dating or a relationship maybe address that first. What you have written is the words that come from my heart, after fling.com 7 years of separation, I still can’t believe that I can open my heart to another man or have a feeling for. Because my ex was the only man in my life after my father. Financially stable, 2 lovely big kids, married and unmarried.
As a 50-something man, I disagree completely with the article’s premise. Unless a guy is rich with lots of money to spend, it is going to be difficult to find a woman who is good looking, wealthy and has no health or emotional issues who is in her 50’s. If you eliminate all people who are either overweight and/or have some other sort of chronic health condition, you are eliminating 60 or 70% of possible partners. If you are talking about men over 50 years old, it’s approaching 75%.If you add in that the man has to be well off, you’ve just made the pool even smaller.
And finally, like I said above, the journey can be just as much fun as the destination. If you’re having fun and the person you’re with is having fun you’re more likely to “click”. You’re not going to find the right person right away. It may take a while, but remember, sometimes the journey can be as much fun as the destination. Hi Meribast, I like and agree with your message, it’s so true and fitting for most of us in our 50+ years. I agree with what you had to say in your message.
Life has taught you to be critical.
I contacted four guys through this venue and received no response from any of them. I even went out of my comfort zone a bit to give these guys a chance to just start a conversation. I am comfortable in my own skin and I know I am a quality person. It hurts when nobody gives you a chance.
I am fit and attractive but I would never be fooled by the beauty without maturity which is something many young women lack. For the time being I just have to be patient until the time is right. The first impression is the lasting one, and as such, it is the reality that we judge first by looks. None of us will really nonchalantly look at a man/woman and wonder about their successes and where they have been if they don’t possess the very things that we find them attractive. So, it is important for single folks looking for partners/lovers to make sure to stay groomed and physically fit, especially leaving your house. And as you navigate through the relationship with your loved one, it should be a promise you make to each other to stay relatively fit and attractive.
All you old crows made your choices…. Your 60 and proud of dating women in their 20’s. Stop deluding yourself and complaing and do the hard work in life to make yourself attractive and happy person.
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I guess they are judgmental and appear to be suspicious about everything (too good to be true?). Or simply, they are looking for younger and or needy men. I have tried to invest my time in seriously dating few women close to my age over past three years but find them turn quirky after couple of dates.
This is coming from a divorcee that turned down alimony after a 20 year marriage. The first time I married it was to an alcoholic. I didn’t know this at the time and I fell in love with him based on his personality. I was young and the marriage only lasted 2 years. The second man I married was poor when I met him.
Older women are likely to have more work and life experience than their younger counterparts. To the right man, an older partner can serve as a romantic interest, as well as a source of knowledge to learn from. For men uninterested in having and raising children, a relationship with an older woman might be the most ideal setup. In past relationships, women may have been used to playing second fiddle to their older partners. This may have seen their partners act as primary providers or heads of the home. The combination of youth and a mindset still in development, make younger men an appealing choice for women looking to experience more from life.
If he can’t work it one way I’d hope he would be able to do it another way. I’m pretty white bread when it comes to sexual practices but my assumption there is a lot to work within the non alternative sex path. I don’t share with no one and I would prefer a partner who is liked minded. Finding a younger male partner I guess isn’t that hard but few would be interested in a long term relationship. Nobody goes into a marriage thinking they’ll get divorced.
